Yes, you read right. Everyone wants to be a good person but in this post I will tell you about goodness is not always good. You may have different views on this but this is true that in some cases there is a situation where you think 'Why I am doing this ….’. let me clear that I am not against anyone's gentleness and I want to be a good person also but there are some phases in life when I get bothered over all this. At times I think…. “Should I have done this…!”
In today's world people are so much selfish that they would not take time to refute your good deeds done to them. You keep doing better, they don't have any concerns. You keep improving yourself, they have no interest in supporting you. No one knows what kind of people are those who even don't try to be better seeing others. They neither try to be a good person or citizen nor appreciate others. Believe me, some people are of the kind that if you try to make them understand or learn, you take risk of losing your calmness. Here, your trying to be a gentleman is a futile effort. If you do so, you can imbalance your mental calmness. You may get depressed with these people if you think about them deeply. So this is wise to be less or no careful with the careless fellows. People have tendency to feather their own nest. We understand this by an example-- Being a gentleman if you give somebody the money for his work to be done, he will take money happily promising return in due course. But, when you need money for your own work urgently you can't get it back. Then you will think “ If I can't get help in urgency, why should I try to be great by doing it for others.” People want their work to be done and others go to hell.
I would like to share my experience with you. Whenever I go out of town, I learn new things if there is something to learn. I really like to learn and implement that in life. When I come back to home I expect my neighbours to be changed to good but…. in vain. People remain same doing same old things like they can't speak the truth, they can't give up bad habits, even they can't survive without backbitting one another. But big problem is that if you go to make them understand the things, they prove you arrogant or criticize you saying that you are doing this just for show. You are now a show-off in your society which you want to make an ideal.
Although there is also bright side of the situation. There are some people who support you for the good cause and value your emotions. But these are only a handful and because of these people one can expect positive wave in the social system. These handful good Samaritans are the backbone of progressive society. These are the motivation for a person who tries to work for the betterment of society. These only a handful of people are sufficient to make balance with the plenty of irresponsible ones. Due to these very less people life exists on the earth. It is wise enough to keep doing great work despite some bad experiences.
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