Target those who are responsible. Why do others suffer....?

I was forced to write this post after seeing some incidents in news. This post is somehow related to agitation. Although I have written one article about this issue, this is different from that. One day I was reading the newspaper and came across an incident about protest. Some people were protesting over their demand against administration and they blocked the road. From this point I was forced to think about suffering borne by others, who were innocent, due to this demonstration. What was the fault of those innocent people who were going to do their daily work.

         I am not against any honest demand made by anyone through protest. But it is equally important to think in a different perspective as to make aware the administration about your problems. I think it in a way in which no one suffers, only responsible person bears the brunt of problem. Suppose you are going to your office or you are going to somewhere with your family in a car and there is a road blockade by mob. The agitating mob suddenly comes to your vehicle and try to sabotage or set it on fire then how would you feel… definitely it should not be done. There may be a worst case scenario if you are with your loved one that is in critical health condition. Whatever wrong is done with those agitating people, at least you have not done that. Then why you suffer….?

             Protest has to be done by farmers for reasonable prices of their crops. It is very right, nothing wrong is in this. They should be able to get right fruits for their toiling in the fields. Protest has to be organised by students if there is cheating in their exams and government deny any wrongdoing. So they have to be organised a strong agitation against the administration for a fair enquiry. People are forced to protest if administration is biased to one fraction in some cases. Any type of protest is done, if the agitating people bother innocent people they will not be called right protestors. If any government employee does something wrong with you, go to his office and hold protest in front of him instead of blocking a road. Don't let him go to his home until he realizes his conduct. Any officer, politician or other, either of higher rank or lower should be treated in the same way.

             Here, one issue occurs that during mass protest by impeding any service like road blockade, power cut etc a pressure can be put on the administration. Yes, you can put pressure but what do the innocent people do…. As much as the protest is important, so is the care of innocent people. Do as much better as you can. It is also not that good if you make trouble to people punishing the guilty. If you block railway track in support of reservation or any other matter, think wisely how many innocent people suffer… you have issues with government then gather in front of the Parliament and show your unity and guts to the responsible ie government. I want to tell that we will have to be mature now and do the right things in the more right way.

Why are people so careless ?

Whenever I think about how should be a person ? What qualities one should have ? One thing often comes in my mind that one should be as caring as possible. Careness is the quality through which a person can be beloved by everyone. A caring person always make very special place in every heart. Whenever I meet such caring person, I always forced to think that why all the people in this world can't be of such a nice nature. What is the problem in that ? What are the losses a person is burdened with to become caring. I am of the thought that we don't lose any thing if we are caring about someone. Infact we get blessings and love from others in return. But some people are who don't care anybody’s emotions or feelings. This is the bitter truth that most of the persons are of the nature ‘who cares…’

              I share two incidents of me with you. First is - when I was in class 12th I needed a book so I went to the shop and asked for that book. Book was not available at that time and shop owner told me to come the next day. I confirmed about the book to come next day twice and he assured me that he would go to the city and brought that book as well as others for his shop also, so you collect it next day. I was happy and went next day but my book could not come. He did not regret and answered my question ignorantly. This is not the perfect example but he should not have promised me. And second is - once I had to fill a form of an entrance exam and one of my friends promised me to go together to purchase the form. I waited for one week but he didn't call me. After some days he came across me and told me that he had purchased the form and filled that up. He had submitted the form and I was still waiting for his call. That time I felt so disgusting that I can't tell you.

            I say you are free to live your life, live it as you want….this is ok. But you should not promise if you can't remain true to your word. I am not saying that you believe anyone blindly and don't care about your own matters. But if you have promised anyone, you must care about his or her feelings. This careless behaviour is prevalent in many areas of our life like- relations, professional life etc. Some people are so selfish that they want others pay heed towards them but they don't have any respect towards others’ feelings. I have a major concern about that person who cares for everyone. If a single person cares among entire group and others have no such feelings, then why that single person cares ?... He or she shouldn't behave if others don't deserve that kind of behaviour.

        We all are human beings. We all need some type of care in any form to keep our relationship warm. Always care for your loving ones and enjoy your life carefree.