Why are people so careless ?

Whenever I think about how should be a person ? What qualities one should have ? One thing often comes in my mind that one should be as caring as possible. Careness is the quality through which a person can be beloved by everyone. A caring person always make very special place in every heart. Whenever I meet such caring person, I always forced to think that why all the people in this world can't be of such a nice nature. What is the problem in that ? What are the losses a person is burdened with to become caring. I am of the thought that we don't lose any thing if we are caring about someone. Infact we get blessings and love from others in return. But some people are who don't care anybody’s emotions or feelings. This is the bitter truth that most of the persons are of the nature ‘who cares…’

              I share two incidents of me with you. First is - when I was in class 12th I needed a book so I went to the shop and asked for that book. Book was not available at that time and shop owner told me to come the next day. I confirmed about the book to come next day twice and he assured me that he would go to the city and brought that book as well as others for his shop also, so you collect it next day. I was happy and went next day but my book could not come. He did not regret and answered my question ignorantly. This is not the perfect example but he should not have promised me. And second is - once I had to fill a form of an entrance exam and one of my friends promised me to go together to purchase the form. I waited for one week but he didn't call me. After some days he came across me and told me that he had purchased the form and filled that up. He had submitted the form and I was still waiting for his call. That time I felt so disgusting that I can't tell you.

            I say you are free to live your life, live it as you want….this is ok. But you should not promise if you can't remain true to your word. I am not saying that you believe anyone blindly and don't care about your own matters. But if you have promised anyone, you must care about his or her feelings. This careless behaviour is prevalent in many areas of our life like- relations, professional life etc. Some people are so selfish that they want others pay heed towards them but they don't have any respect towards others’ feelings. I have a major concern about that person who cares for everyone. If a single person cares among entire group and others have no such feelings, then why that single person cares ?... He or she shouldn't behave if others don't deserve that kind of behaviour.

        We all are human beings. We all need some type of care in any form to keep our relationship warm. Always care for your loving ones and enjoy your life carefree.